Cheating. Infidelity. What A thing! Someone can look at you, straight in your eyes, and tell you you're the only one. That they love you, they want to share their life with you, and only you. At that moment your heart is in control. If you let it be. You are faced with a decision, do I surrender to love, give my heart, my body, my soul, my life? For the sake of loving this one, that says they love me? How could you Not?! We were created to love, and to be faithful to one soulmate.
Murder in the 1st: pre-meditated, same goes for someone who cheats in a predetermined manner. They plan, lie, intend to deceive, ask friends to lie, or cover-up, think up places and alibis, you get the idea.
Murder in the 2nd: Applies to a cheater who 'cheats', but does so 'on the fly', they are either open to it in their heart, and they simply let it happen, when 'opportunity knocks', or they fall into it unwittingly, usually under the influence of alcohol,.or drugs. Which tends to be a particularly annoying argument on the part of the 'cheater'.
Are there levels, or degrees of guilt in the world of cheating. Are there any ground rules? Is it only cheating if promises have been made, or if you've been married with kids and time invested building your lives together.
Does everyone cheat? Those who have, commit murder. Murder of the heart and soul of another person. The person who loves you the most. You know how they say, the ones closest to you will hurt you the most. As bad as that notion is, Cheaters are even worse. A whole other level of hurting another. a much more saddistic and cruel thing. Utter disregard, Trust-Shattering, Life scarring.
Cheating: "A Violation of the Spirit of another, who's trust was freely given to you"
